Melissa Monet, born Mindy DeBaise on July 16, 1964, in Staten Island, New York City, is a retired American adult film actress, writer, director, and producer of Italian Catholic and German Orthodox Jewish descent. Raised in a middle-class family, she worked as an accountant after high school, later becoming a sexual surrogate, escort, and madam. Melissa has stated that she lost her virginity at "an early age" to a boy but she had also always been interested in women and had her first experience with a woman at the age of 15, as a result of her and her then-boyfriend having sex with an older college couple.She entered the adult film industry in July 1994 at age 30, an unusually late start, when she accompanied her then-boyfriend to a porn audition and was offered a job instead, per prabook.com and Boobpedia. Using aliases like Mellisa Monet and Melisa Monet, she appeared in over 308 films, including My Daughter’s Boyfriend (2009, AVN Best Actress nominee 2010), River Rock Women’s Prison (2010, AVN Best Supporting Actress and Best All-Girl Couples Sex Scene nominee 2011 withJustine Joli), and Killer Sex and Suicide Blondes (2004, AVN Best Screenplay nominee 2005 with George Kaplan and Michael Raven), per IAFD and IMDb.Known for her 5’1” height, 110-pound frame, brown/auburn hair, brown eyes, 32C-23-33 measurements, tattoos (ladybug or bird on right hip, right ankle), and no piercings, she became a fan favorite in MILF-themed lesbian scenes after returning from a 12-year performing hiatus in 2006, per Wikiporno and FreeOnes. As a director, she helmed 19 hardcore titles for the Spice Channel in its early years, produced the documentary Porn: It’s a Living (directed by Mindy DeBaise), appeared in Rated X: A Journey Through Porn and Pornstar Pets, and directed softcore films for Roger Corman’s Click Productions, per prabook.com and AVN. She also wrote for Looking Glass magazine and authored a comic book spawning sequels, per AVN.Fans praised her as “a MILF legend with timeless allure,” noting her River Rock Women’s Prison scenes (comment: “Melissa’s maturity is a turn on,” user: retrofan64). A 2024 X post called her “a 1990s and 2000s icon whose lesbian scenes are pure art” (@RetroPornFan). AVN (2010) described her as “a multifaceted talent with directorial finesse.” Wikiporno (2012) lauded her “authentic eroticism in lesbian roles,” per Wikiporno. The Rialto Report noted her “as starting late and still having a multi decade career,” cementing her as a distinctive 1990s–2000s adult cinema figure.Retiring from performing in 2014 and directing in 2015, she cited John Leslie, Orson Welles, and Alfred Hitchcock as influences, per EverybodyWiki. No relationships, children, or net worth are documented, and claims of mainstream roles on Californication or a famous actress mother and musician father are unverified, per boo.world and celebritygeckos.com. As of August 5, 2025, Monet, now 61, lives privately with no active social media presence, her work enduring in MILF and lesbian adult film communities.Awards & Honors: Melissa Monet🏆 Award Wins & HonorsNo documented industry award wins recordedRecognized as a respected lesbian performer and director featured in multiple award-nominated productions🥇 Award Nominations & Recognitions2005 – AVN nominee: Best Screenplay – Video (Killer Sex and Suicide Blondes)2006 – AVN nominee: Best Art Direction – Video (Camp Cuddly Pines Powertool Massacre)2010 – AVN nominee: Best Actress – Film (My Daughter’s Boyfriend)2011 – AVN nominee: Best All‑Girl Couples Sex Scene (River Rock Women’s Prison, with Justine Joli)2011 – AVN nominee: Best Supporting Actress – Film (River Rock Women’s Prison)🌟 Legacy & RecognitionEntered the adult film industry at age 30 in 1994 and appeared in over 200 titles, blending mature performance style with directorial ambitionBecame one of the early female directors and producers in lesbian-themed filmmaking, notably for Sweetheart Video and Mile High MediaCelebrated for her intelligence, creativity, and transition from performer to behind‑the‑scenes visionary, advocating for ethical production and performer agency